| When confronting your cheating boyfriends or | | | | less then truthfulness. |
| cheating girlfriends, or if you suspect your | | | | Study NLP (Nero Linguistic Programming) and you |
| cheating spouses is online at this very moment | | | | will come to find out that when a right handed |
| cheating with someone else, the cheating statistics | | | | person is telling the truth there eyes will access |
| are probably right: 40% of wives have admitted | | | | the part of the brain to engage a memory, it is |
| to a extramarital affair where as 60 % of men | | | | usually up and slightly to the left. However if your |
| have been caught or admitted to this adulterous | | | | spouse is looking up and to the far right they are |
| act. Many men and women have been caught on | | | | making up memories or accessing the creative |
| tape, which is irrefutable evidence to say the | | | | part of there brain to make something up, just |
| least. So if you are a woman with a cheating | | | | food for thought. |
| husband, and you refuse to search for the truth, | | | | Body language is a key indicator of behavior and |
| well then that's your choice, however usually the | | | | truthfulness. The old saying, "Actions speak louder |
| evidence oftentimes stares you in the face. | | | | than words", is indeed true. When confronted with |
| For most people, we do not have a lie detector in | | | | a lie, some spouses will be very calm and do their |
| our house to detect a lie, however there are | | | | best to backpedal or get away with it. Others |
| several ways to determine if your cheating | | | | might grow angry, vocal, and outraged, indignant |
| girlfriends telling the truth. | | | | that they have been accused of wrongdoing. |
| Subtle gestures that are out of the ordinary, are | | | | There are several different body language |
| often signs that your cheater may not be telling | | | | behaviors that may raise a red flag for a spouse, |
| you the whole truth. Body positioning, visual clues, | | | | especially when they have never been present |
| and subtle gestures that are made by the hands, | | | | before. These may include but are not limited to: |
| legs, and eyes can often help professional | | | | #1 Playing with the hair or tugging at ears, eyes |
| investigators FBI agents, and law enforcement | | | | or lips, |
| officers to tell if someone is telling the truth or | | | | #2 Refusing to make eye contact, |
| not. Body language is not a perfect science, but in | | | | #3 Excessive fidgeting, |
| many ways it can help to serve as a red flag for | | | | #4 Looking upward when replying to a question, |
| certain types of behaviors. | | | | #5 Rapid eye movement, |
| Both men and women lie on occasion. Lying men | | | | #6 Accelerated breathing rate, and |
| usually fall back on bluster and bravado, or making | | | | #7 Repeatedly wiping the forehead or side of the |
| themselves out to be something they're not. In | | | | face. |
| most cases, men don't even seem to realize that | | | | #8 Playing with or excessive licking their lips |
| what they may be saying is offensive or even | | | | There are many signs of cheating, I must say |
| Judgmental, just as long as it makes them feel | | | | that my favorite sign is the hide the cell phone |
| more important in their own eyes. | | | | game. Remember when he or she would just lay |
| Cheating wives often lie to exaggerate their place | | | | the cell phone just any old place and could never |
| in society, they want to feel as though their place | | | | find it when going out the door. And now that she |
| in society is somewhat more then what it is. | | | | or he is having an affair it is always in there |
| However just because some one blushes or | | | | pocket or sitting next to them with the messages |
| fidgets with there hands does not necessarily | | | | always played and erased, always out of your |
| mean they are lying, however any thing more | | | | reach it seems. |
| then, "out of the ordinary" may mean there is | | | | |