| There's a song from back in the day that says, | | | | take a toll. |
| "When you are trying to love two. It sure ain't | | | | Which path they choose is entirely up to the |
| easy to do." That maybe true but it does not | | | | individual but if they try to do both one of the |
| stop countless cheating spouses from giving it the | | | | relationships are going to suffer. |
| old college try. | | | | It does not always wind up being the marriage |
| In the beginning they may be quite successful at | | | | that gets the worst of it but often that is exactly |
| it. They tell themselves that it is no problem to | | | | what happens. For the extramarital affair is where |
| balance their marriage with the extramarital affair. | | | | the excitement and adventure are. The home life |
| They may even decide to devote a little more | | | | represents the routine. |
| time and attention to their marriage so as to give | | | | Therefore if your intuition is telling you something |
| the impression that things just keep getting | | | | is not quite right with your spouse than pay |
| better at home. | | | | special notice to how they handle the activities |
| The spouse may not even realize what is going | | | | around the house. |
| on. They are just grateful for the extra attention | | | | Many a cheating spouse will just lose interest. |
| and the way their partner is helping out around | | | | They could care less about family outings or the |
| the home more than usual. | | | | tasks around the home which they are neglecting. |
| Then somewhere along the way it happens. They | | | | Their interaction with you gets reduced to the |
| slowly start getting pulled in two different | | | | bare minimum. You also start to feel a wall of |
| directions. The duties of home life and the | | | | resentment going up and you are not really sure |
| responsibilities of maintaining their affair start to | | | | why. |