| Of all of the emails that I get asking about clues | | | | recycle bin, your text message out, in, or sent |
| points to cheating, text messages are by far the | | | | box is one of the first logical places to check. |
| most common topic. People want to know if | | | | Why A Deleted Text Message Doesn't Mean That |
| deleted text messages are a sign that indicates | | | | You Can't Catch Their Cheating. You Can Usually |
| probable cheating. They want to know if they can | | | | Read These: The very crafty and sneaky spouse |
| read texts that have been deleted. And, they | | | | will usually think that they've gotten rid of all |
| want to know if there is any logical and legitimate | | | | evidence of their inappropriate texts by merely |
| reason that an innocent spouse would want to | | | | hitting delete. This can give them a false sense of |
| delete texts that are completely appropriate. I will | | | | security and they'll keep right on messaging back |
| discuss all of these things in the following article. | | | | and forth and leaving a trail even though they |
| Why Text Messages Can Be A Cheater's Best | | | | assume they are perfectly safe. |
| Friend: Spouses who cheat love technology. They | | | | But, hitting delete isn't the end of the story. There |
| especially love text messages because it is an | | | | is software that will get these texts and photos |
| easy, cheap, and immediate way to connect with | | | | back and allow for you to read and see them |
| or communicate with the person who they are | | | | without a password and even if they've been |
| cheating with. (They love picture messages also.) | | | | erased for a long time. This can be very very |
| There's something playful and alluring about | | | | useful because usually all the gloves are off in |
| sending a text or picture and getting an almost | | | | these messages. Since the cheating spouse |
| immediate response. Plus, you can immediately | | | | assumes that this message is deleted forever, |
| delete anything that you don't want for your | | | | they speak freely. This is exactly what you want |
| spouse to read. | | | | to read. |
| Almost everyone has a cell phone today and | | | | I realize that sometimes spouses will swear that |
| most of us carry them with us everywhere we | | | | their deleting their texts is perfectly innocent. |
| go. So, it's not all that suspicious for your spouse | | | | They will tell you that they were just cleaning out |
| to be carrying one with them and / or messaging | | | | their files and leaving room. Or they will tell you |
| and checking email on it. This is a behavior that | | | | that they just wanted to get rid of things from |
| they hope and assume will not bring your | | | | work that are outdated now. Well, any reasonably |
| attention to their cheating. | | | | recent cell phone will automatically delete |
| But what they don't count on is that usually, even | | | | messages once the files get full. This is true of |
| the most laid back spouse will eventually suspect | | | | even the cheapest phone. |
| that something is wrong or off. And, once that | | | | So, I rarely believe it when I hear someone claim |
| little voice in the back of the faithful spouse's | | | | that a pattern of deleted messages was |
| head begins to speak and ask questions, then | | | | completely innocent. Why go through that trouble |
| suddenly they are noticing every out of place or | | | | if you have nothing to hide when this happens |
| recurrent or excessive behaviors - and that | | | | automatically? But, if you have any doubt of this |
| includes your cell. | | | | or suspect something, it's very easy to check this |
| Plus, even if the cheating spouse is very careful | | | | out. And once you find the texts in question, you |
| to hide their texting, this is the logical first place | | | | can then plug in the phone number to find out |
| that most suspicious spouses are going to look. | | | | who the other person is and who the cell belongs |
| Other than your email and internet trash can and | | | | to. |