| There's no need to hire a personal investigator to | | | | phone. Get your hands on his cell phone and look |
| find out the answer to the question is he cheating | | | | for unusual phone numbers, especially ones he has |
| on me. With careful observation, accurate records | | | | called when you are not around. Look for texts |
| and a little bit of snooping you can work it out | | | | that have only an address or similar. If he has |
| yourself. | | | | deleted his phone history that may also be cause |
| Luckily for you, if he is having an affair, despite all | | | | for concern. |
| his careful planning, he will slip up and there will be | | | | If you suspect he's meeting people through online |
| tell tale signs. He may also subconsciously want | | | | dating agencies or web 2.0 software like |
| you to find out. Nobody likes living a double life | | | | Facebook or MySpace, sign yourself up and try |
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| being betrayed. He will have justified it to himself | | | | so he doesn't suspect anything. |
| somehow, but deep down he'll know that what he | | | | Next you need to search for evidence of deceit. |
| is doing is wrong and will want to come clean. | | | | Call his work if he's supposedly there working late. |
| The first sort of evidence to look for is physical. | | | | Find out what conference he is supposedly going |
| This will be the most obvious and will get you the | | | | to on the business trip and see if it actually exists. |
| strongest case against him. Check his clothing | | | | You could record his miles in the car to see if |
| after an unexplained absence. There may be | | | | they match up with his daily commute. Look for |
| lipstick on the collar, a stray hair that's not yours | | | | unexplained receipts etc or even condom |
| and maybe unusual perfumes or other odors. You | | | | wrappers in the rubbish or hidden in the car. |
| can check his underwear for stains, one of the | | | | These are the simplest non-technological ways to |
| best giveaways. | | | | answer the question, is he cheating on you. There |
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