| When I receive a call from someone who thinks | | | | as an investigator, I do not believe some of these |
| their spouse is cheating on them, it's about a 95% | | | | other alleged signs are valid. For example, if your |
| chance they are being cheated on. | | | | spouse, all of a sudden, wants to wear thong |
| California is a no-fault divorce state, so infidelity | | | | undergarments, that does not mean he/she is |
| really has no affect on a divorce case. | | | | having an affair. If your spouse wants to buy |
| Nevertheless, my clients still want that "Peace of | | | | better clothes, that does not necessarily mean |
| Mind" by confirming whether their spouse is really | | | | they are having an affair. |
| having an affair and with whom. | | | | I believe communication with your spouse is the |
| So here are the basic signs of a cheating spouse: | | | | most important factor in your relationship in |
| 1) When your spouse does not tell you where | | | | determining whether an affair is taking place. If |
| they were for the past 4 hours after leaving | | | | you truly believe your spouse is having an affair |
| work (on an ongoing basis). This is very common | | | | or cheating on you, then most likely it's true. |
| among cheaters. They tell you that it's none of | | | | Who Is Your Spouse Having An Affair With? |
| your business. | | | | 1) A co-worker or supervisor/boss. This is the |
| 2) Lack of affection shown by your spouse. This | | | | most common person a spouse would be having |
| is not necessarily a sure sign of a cheater, but if | | | | an affair with according to our previous |
| all of sudden, after a healthy love life with your | | | | investigation results. |
| spouse all the passion stops, then you must | | | | 2) Someone they met on the internet. This is a |
| wonder if there is another person. | | | | growing trend with the advancements in |
| 3) When they spend less and less time with you | | | | technology. |
| and your children. This is the biggest sign of a | | | | 3) An old flame from before they were married. |
| cheating spouse or at least a spouse who has | | | | 4) Someone they met at the gym where they |
| absolutely no interest in continuing their family | | | | work out. It could be someone they work out |
| relationship to make it stronger. | | | | with or even their personal trainer. |
| 4) There are the obvious signs: Lipstick on the | | | | If you do not have any clue who your spouse |
| collar, the odors of someone else's perfume or | | | | may be having an affair with, I suggest hiring a |
| cologne on their clothing or long blonde hair on the | | | | licensed private investigator to follow your spouse. |
| passenger seat of the car. | | | | The fees to hire an investigator start about $500 |
| 5) My favorite sign (based on the calls from | | | | per night to follow your spouse from work or |
| clients) is condoms in the car. Yes, people are that | | | | when they go out at night by themselves or with |
| stupid. Especially when one or both spouses are | | | | friends. |
| fixed. | | | | All in all, I hope you do not find your spouse |
| Now, there are many lists on the web of | | | | showing any of these cheating signs or actually |
| "cheating spouse signs." Based on my expertise | | | | having an affair. |