| "People who are so dreadfully "devoted" to their | | | | "alone time" is most likely shared with someone |
| wives are so apt, from mere habit, to get | | | | else. |
| devoted to other people's wives as well." - Jane | | | | 5) One of the obvious signs is a change in working |
| Welsh Carlyle | | | | house. Are they now coming home later than |
| When people talk about cheating spouses, I often | | | | usual? Are they leaving for work earlier than |
| think of this quote. It seems an ever increasing | | | | normal? Taking longer lunch breaks or starting to |
| number of spouses are seeking out ways to | | | | work on weekends? |
| catch their cheating spouse. Most people who | | | | 6) Is your spouse now spending a significant |
| suspect their spouse is cheating want to quickly | | | | amount of time on their laptop when they are |
| run out and hire a PI, or purchase spy software | | | | home? If there is not a reason for this (such as a |
| to catch their spouse in the act. I recommend | | | | new business or project they are working on), |
| before any of those steps are taken, that you | | | | then it's a sign that they could be using their time |
| first try to confirm that your spouse is indeed | | | | at home to secretly chat with the "other" person. |
| having an affair. | | | | 7) When your spouse is on the phone, do they |
| Here are the top ten warning signs that your | | | | now quickly move to isolated parts of the home |
| spouse is having an affair. | | | | for privacy. Or they taking the dogs out for more |
| 1) Your spouse may be spending more time with | | | | frequent walks, often while hanging onto their cell |
| a so called "new friend" and when you enquire | | | | phones? |
| may say that they are just good friends and | | | | 8) Do you see subtle behavior changes? Are they |
| nothing more. | | | | staying out late now? Working later than usual? |
| 2) One of the most common "warning" signs is | | | | Suddenly interested in new hobbies, perfumes, |
| that your spouse appears to be bored with you, | | | | fashion, etc. that cannot be explained. |
| with his/ her job, with children, with hobbies and | | | | 9) Is your spouse frequently getting defensive |
| with their life in general. Something is distracting | | | | when you press them for information on their |
| them and making them think of a new life. Is it | | | | whereabouts? Or perhaps when you ask them |
| because of someone new? | | | | where they've been? |
| 3) Your spouse starts to actively seek out ways | | | | 10) Is your personal relationship less intimate now? |
| to protect their privacy, especially thethings that | | | | Do you feel distant and is there now less |
| both of you have historically shared openly, but | | | | conversation when you are together? |
| now they unexpectedly start to change | | | | Please keep in mind that these ten 'Cheating |
| passwords on their emails accounts, or add a PIN | | | | Spouse Tips' are only meant to give you some |
| number to their cell phone. | | | | things to look out for in case you are worried |
| 4) Has your spouse started to push for more | | | | your spouse might be having an affair. Just |
| space in the relationship? Are they now seeking | | | | because you notice one or two of these |
| for ways to spend time "alone" in order to clear | | | | happening, doesn't necessarily mean they are |
| their mind? When someone starts to ask for time | | | | cheating, so make sure you keep the dialogue |
| away or time alone, it's usually because that | | | | open and discuss your concerns with your spouse. |